NO PHOTOS REQUIRED

I was having a lovely chat after a session with a client other day. We were talking about how nerve racking can be to book a session with someone you haven’t met before. I concurred, as the times I had booked massages I felt very nervous about meeting this new person and then getting undressed in front of them. He was reflecting on the added feeling anxiety that comes from having to send photos and measurements to a masseuse when booking. All of a sudden I realised how inappropriate that seems to me. It’s almost like you are auditioning to be able to give someone your money. “Please will you accept me and then please can I pay you to massage me”

This is something I would never currently ask of a client.

Just to be devil‘s advocate for a minute though… I am reflecting on potentially what I would’ve been like when I was younger before I had done work on myself and my sexuality. Having attended a retreat where the initial attraction to the other men was limited. It was until we started to work on each other and got intimate with each other that I realised that sometimes my visual preferences will exclude me from intimacy with men that, although initially not attractive, provide me with what I need more than what I would normally get from my traditional version of “attractive”.

Sometimes when clients send me photos and measurements, race and size I always get a little bit sad that they think that I would need that. I am always surprised and how attracted I am to clients even if they aren’t in my particular lane. In fact exposure to so many different styles of men has opened me up and made me more of something.

Please know if you book a session with me I will take you exactly as you come no photos required.

Marcus